4) Take Up SpaceĪcting shy or timid might not be an effective way to seduce someone but acting coy could be. Men and women both brought their hands to their necks and shoulders when trying to convey a sense of vulnerability, as the neck is one of the weakest places on the body, and placing your hand along your jaw, neck, or collarbone draws the object of your affection's eyes there. When individuals revealed themselves as being almost prey-like in their speech, behavior, or stance, the opposite sex was more likely to display sexual interest. 3) Demonstrate Vulnerabilityĭisplaying one’s vulnerability has been shown to be a valuable trait in some studies. The heat of initial attraction can be further fueled by intrigue and eager expectation. After you 'bump' into someone, try to create some space between your bodies, while keeping eye contact or visual interest alive. 2) Hold Back After InitiatingĪlthough your goal is to initiate some form of physical contact, you may not want to sustain that contact for too long. If someone expresses that they do not like your touch, disengage in these behaviors with them. However, it is important to be respectful of people’s boundaries, space, and wishes. Even something as simple as raking your fingers over someone's arm can have a powerful and lasting impact. You can casually 'bump' into someone, with a seemingly abashed, 'I'm sorry,' before moving along, or you can graze your leg against the object of your affection's leg as you are sitting down. Far from full-on pressing yourself into someone's body, or immediately flinging yourself into a deep kiss, this touch is designed to create interest, heat, and attraction, without intense physical contact. The first step in seducing someone could be initiating contact. To seduce someone, you can try to: 1) Initiate Touch So how exactly do you seduce someone? Below, a small series of steps offer a window into what it is like to seduce someone, how to do it, and how to handle negative responses.

If you are sincerely interested in someone, and your goal is to build a solid foundation for the two of you, the manipulative aspects of seduction might seem unwarranted, or might not seem quite so dire. It can be a form of manipulation, but every situation is different.

Seduction involves shaping the reality and intention of a situation to work to your benefit. Seduction can be done quickly, to a stranger, as might be the case before taking someone home from a bar, or can be done within a relationship, wherein one person aims to rediscover or improve their love and sexual lives. Seducing someone means swaying them to develop a romantic, physical interest in you, and ultimately consummate or pursue that interest.

Seduce & Atone by Elisia M. Blade